Communication
Lately I have been volunteering more of my time trying to
help people with this Wizpert thing, where basically I get messaged and have a
chat with people who want relationship advice, which is great. Sadly though
what I have noticed is the main issue in the majority of people I have talked
to is a lack of clear communication.
Now I have no intentions of rambling on about what a person
may be doing wrong and why they should stop it, frankly most people who do not
communicate properly are aware of that and choose to continue so! Instead of
dwelling on the negative I am going to tell you what you get out of good
communication with your partner, or even a relative or a friend!
A Successful Relationship.
Yes it is that plain and simple, the key to success is communication,
talking and putting your thoughts across shows that you care, it shows that you
are making an effort, it shows that you are nurturing, and that you are there!
really there not just a body whilst you are absent in essence. Naturally listening
and patience play a role when it comes to good communication but think of it
this way … you get what you give, I realise this may seem odd talking about
emotions and behaviour in this way but it is the most simple way to put it, if
you use good quality material and you work hard the outcome will be a product
of good quality, so you are the material, the hard work is communication
amongst a variety of other things and the end product is a strong relationship.
It is scary at times I know, being honest putting yourself
out there and of course the possibility that you are the only one attempting to
communicate, but don’t let that put you off, we all need a little push every
now and then, it is quite refreshing when you find someone that is willing to
make an effort until you feel comfortable enough to start letting go of the
fear, don’t you agree?
Oh and of course Chocolate and Cake make communication much
lighter and easy!
That is a chocolate chip cookie cake in case you are wondering, if you make me this i will love you forever and ever...
I have never seen anything so scrumptious looking :)
ReplyDeletePeople tend to want to point fingers and forget that you really do get what you give!! Great post!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely agree!!
Deleteprecisely !! so we should all have some cake :D Judy wanna give me a hand we can make it !!
ReplyDeleteThis is true both for individuals and organizations. Great post.
ReplyDeleteHi from Nagzilla bloghopping A to Z
Yes communication is very important for good relationships, however I'm guilty when it comes to not communicating properly with people. But I'm working on it. I'm trying to communicate a bit more.
ReplyDeleteAlso, chocolate chip cookie cake? Gimme! =D
Yes please @ that! You are doing more good in this world of ours, than you can possibly imagine! *huggles you Anthony*
ReplyDelete#Pinkopolis Admin Miss Lou Lou ♥