G

Gingers!

Gingers are people that usually get picked on due to their fiery red hair and very pale complexion, they usually have freckles too!

I am guilty of picking on gingers (particular ones) and that is because the ginger people I know are quite feisty so it is quite fun.

It is also something edible, well you can cook with it or boil it in water and drink it, that is extremely healthy for you, it is good for lowering diabetics blood sugar or losing weight, and a variety of other things that I elect not to Google right now J

G is for grandparents! And grasshoppers

And G is for Gravity

Gravity is a force that pulls you towards something or draws you to it if you will; no I am not talking about the apple that fell on newton’s head, I am talking about how you unexpectedly find yourself gravitating to somebody, it is scary and amazing and exciting and unexplainable all at the same time!

F

Ok F is not particularly an easy one because I have already wrote about freedom and forgiveness, and sooooo for the last couple of days I have been having Fun!
 So F is for Family!

You meet people in your life that you can’t help but bond with for a variety of different reasons; over time that bond grows stronger without you even realizing it, now some people are blessed with this through blood relations also so the same things apply.
Family are the people you can simply be yourself with, no walls, no guards, no pretending, no fake smiles, you can for the most part rely on them. The people you don’t need to explain things to just to prevent making a bad impression, hell you don’t need to make any impression because they love you regardless, and life is flavourless without them, yes little critters such as dogs also count as family.
Families come in all shapes and sizes they can vary from a just a couple to a large variety of parents children uncles aunts and zoo animals, there is no limit!
But see for people that come from a less fortunate background because of blood relations find it very difficult to establish these family connections/bonds, this is due to Fear.
Fear prevents us from experiencing the most amazing things, soooooo lets enjoy our families and not let fear get in the way of life .

E

E is for Equality, now this is going to be a fairly simple short post for all intents and purposes.This being due to the fact that I believe my self to be a fairly good intelligent logical man for the most part, unless chocolate is involved or steak or pie... any how! this also applies to the company i keep and all you lovely readers so!

To put it simply without lecturing or prolonging... we are all born equals, regardless of , background,colour,ethnicity,clothing style,sexual orientation, financial background,religion,beliefs and many other things i can't think of at the time being, we are equal, we all have a nose and 2 eyes and arms and legs and brains, granted some brains seem to be of better quality but that is neither here nor there( as long as they stay there).

Nobody is born better than any one else and nobody dies better than any one else, however in saying that some people do strip themselves from the right of being equal to other human beings by not being human beings basically ( this is my personal opinion of course) like people who without a valid reason which does include a mental condition, kill in cold blood especially if they kill kids, rapists naturally , and animal abusers, naturally the list goes on but you get the gist of it, if you behave like less than a human you naturally will  not be equal to  a human.


So! we are Equals, any body who tells you other than that is an inbred heathen .

Delightful !

Dreams

My favorite part of the night is dreams! because! I know you I walked with you once upon a dream... I know you the gleam in your eyes is soooo familiar a gleam.

Ok ok we are not talking about those kind of dreams its more the longer lasting ones, what did you dream of being when you were a little humanling ? my current dream is to take over the world :D  I am quite passionate about this because there is so much that needs fixing , since authorities and authority figures do pretty much nothing i would like to be the authority figure that makes them do it, so unfortunately that means world domination by ME! ( don't worry you will all enjoy it).

Dreams come in all shapes forms and sizes, it is one of those few things that we all can have, it doesn't matter how old you are or what you look like, where you come from or what colour your socks are! anybody can have any dream they want to be honest any one can also achieve that dream... unless its something impossible for the time being like talking sharks or ridiculous like a human sized smurf (size matters!)

Always always always! have a dream, allow yourself to dream and most importantly! do not let anybody get in the way of your dreams or tell you that they don't matter,or that they are stupid, or that they are impossible, AND if any body does try to say that .....tell them they can mind their own darn dreams, because they are just jealous they can not be as creative as you are :D

Now listen to this song and dreaaaaam a little dream of me ( i may have gotten a bit carried away and started singing there but shhh )

C is for ....

Communication

Lately I have been volunteering more of my time trying to help people with this Wizpert thing, where basically I get messaged and have a chat with people who want relationship advice, which is great. Sadly though what I have noticed is the main issue in the majority of people I have talked to is a lack of clear communication.

Now I have no intentions of rambling on about what a person may be doing wrong and why they should stop it, frankly most people who do not communicate properly are aware of that and choose to continue so! Instead of dwelling on the negative I am going to tell you what you get out of good communication with your partner, or even a relative or a friend!

A Successful Relationship.

Yes it is that plain and simple, the key to success is communication, talking and putting your thoughts across shows that you care, it shows that you are making an effort, it shows that you are nurturing, and that you are there! really there not just a body whilst you are absent in essence. Naturally listening and patience play a role when it comes to good communication but think of it this way … you get what you give, I realise this may seem odd talking about emotions and behaviour in this way but it is the most simple way to put it, if you use good quality material and you work hard the outcome will be a product of good quality, so you are the material, the hard work is communication amongst a variety of other things and the end product is a strong relationship.

It is scary at times I know, being honest putting yourself out there and of course the possibility that you are the only one attempting to communicate, but don’t let that put you off, we all need a little push every now and then, it is quite refreshing when you find someone that is willing to make an effort until you feel comfortable enough to start letting go of the fear, don’t you agree?

Oh and of course Chocolate and Cake make communication much lighter and easy!

That is a chocolate chip cookie cake in case you are wondering, if you make me this i will love you forever and ever...

B is for....

Bernese mountain dog!!! oh I want one I want one I want one !!!

BamBam

This is the original word for B today however it has been changed, in saying that I am still going to give my 5 cents about Bambam regardless! Yes this does refer to Bambam from the Flintstones cartoon/movie.

The way I see it the pressure to be more macho and express machoness is on the increase lately which is not necessarily bad, sadly the perception of macho counteracts my statement of not necessarily bad …… nowadays machoness is being a Bambam from the strength perspective not the full on strong chivalrous silent nice guy , which makes me sad.

Males using physical strength to prove that they are manlier or that they are superior, just to feel better, this is completely wrong on every level.

Why is it that we are at an age and time where being nice, respectful, a gentleman in essence is not good enough?

That is a rhetorical question that I know the answer to but do you? And how can we stop this caveman phenomenon from spreading?

A is for Acceptance

Acceptance such a small word ( in comparison with supercalifragilisticexpialidocious) with such a life changing impact if you do it right , i have no idea why my font just suddenly changed but lets accept it and move on :p

To Accept something means to believe that regardless of what this something is, it is likely to be a fact, an obstacle, something you can do nothing about (not without hurting somebody anyway), something different perhaps even new that can bring change or provides the potential for change anyway .

As humans a large majority of us fear change we are mostly raised to treat different is bad or wrong, and so we retaliate we try to prevent change from occurring , we are stubborn and we pay dearly to avoid accepting things, naturally by we I actually only mean a large proportion of humans I don't mean me and you and you and you oh and even you , in fact I do not include myself in this category most the time , so basically we fight hard to keep things the way they are because honestly we don't think that any good can come of change , regardless of what history has proven.

This has lead me to believe that acceptance in essence is simply acknowledging that fear and getting over it , believing that maybe just maybe  more good will come from this than bad, perhaps it is just as basic as believing that ultimately everything is going to be alright.

Acceptance comes in a all shapes and sizes, it varies from the smallest of things to things that make millions of people protest, but the truth is the way it works the way you get to it is the same regardless. If you regularly take a morning walk or jog for example and this one morning it was pouring down you can either say oh well and stay at home because it was raining thinking that you are simply accepting the fact and dealing with it ( which you wouldn't be , that is acknowledging not accepting) or you could realize that unless you live in a very muddy area where you would be likely to slip , that it doesn't matter if its raining hell it is more enjoyable ! and you need to wash your clothes and get in the shower after you are done anyway so it does not really make a difference .....

ok not the most inspiring of examples but serves the purpose! Accepting bring power it provides you with inner strength to do what may be necessary which at times is nothing, it does not change you or your essence it does not make you weak or less of a person au contrair ! I have found accepting difference to provide more flavour and variety in life hell it spices it up making it more colourful , i am currently accepting that blogger is being stupid and giving me red squiggly lines because i am using British spelling.... you can feel free to read the rest of the blog in a British accent now :D

This word is particularly dear to me because I am an outcast in my blood family anyway for being different, but this journey of not being accepted and treated like a monster has opend my eyes to how accepting of other people i am , the most difficult kind of acceptance is accepting yourself or in my case accepting that i was fighting fr a lost cause , that was hard for me to accept because i thought i was close to my father, but now that i have accepted that i am finding my strength to be myself .

I know it isn't an easy thing to do in fact it requires a reasonable amount of courage to truly accept the things we can not change , but when you do it can make the world of difference not only to you but sometimes to somebody else too .

Equal marriage for example ...( no that was not the reason i chose this word !!)it does not effect you regardless of if you are straight, christian, Muslim, Hindu, atheist, a-sexual,dog,cat,car,fire truck,sponge bob, Easter bunny , you surely get the point ....  it does not effect you , it will not change your life in the slightest, but by accepting it ,  it will change the lives of so many people...

Bottom line kids ... Acceptance is good , Ignorance is harmful 

Oh and I am quite sorry that this blog was not inspirational ,my brain is fuzzy for some reason , hopefully the next ones will be better :D

Accept yourself... you are Amazing.